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Old Sep 13, 2010, 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted by geez View Post
I don't feel comfortable with my T as of right now.

Right now I'm feeling threatened and vulnerable inside and I want to hide.

I usually run in many relationships/friendships and keep everyone at an arms length (T has told me that was her impression of me and that is spot on - my husband has said this too).

I'm just feeling this huge distance from her right now.

I'm afraid she doesn't like me and if so how can I open up to someone if I feel that way?
You are progressing just as you should in T right now Geez. Can you see how real life relationships are being mirrored right now in therapy? The issues that make you keep others at arms length IRL are coming up in therapy right now. Keep working and you will work through these issues.

Can you talk to her about your feeling that she doesn't like you? This is probably the same issue that makes you keep others at arms length?
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Thanks for this!
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