Wow Sunrise,

That is quite a description ~ nice to have a better understanding of what your mom is experiencing. The elderly are more likely (than general "regular" adults) to experience possible side effects of medications. BUT... I really think that your mom should see her doctor.

Tough to say whether or not your mom is hallucinating or simply dreaming vividly. I would say that these events are not part of dementia, unless she stays in that state of mind while awake. For example, seeing things that aren't there or talking with people that no one else can see or hear. Medications can certainly cause all different types of effects with people, that happens all of the time. That's why it's best for your mom to work closely with her doctor about these effects that she's been experiencing lately. I doubt that the entire cause is stress, though it definitely contributes.

Have you looked into getting some emotional and physical assistance for your parents through a local elderly network? Depression is extremely common with elderly, especially those who still remain independent. While they value and hold tight onto independence, that doesn't mean that a hand coming in to help with minor things or play games and talk wouldn't be a very helpful addition to their lives. Maybe a couple of hours a week would make their lives more happy, less stressful, and fulfilling.

Something to think about anyway. I'm a volunteer visitor with elderly and disabled ~ it makes both me and them feel better. Kind of win/win. I can also let nurses and/or specific family members know if they need more help than I can give. And that's a relief for all of us ~~ which would be you in this situation. ((hugs)) to you!