I would never dream of telling my son's adoptive mother that she could never talk to him again! Legally, she's his mother. She raised him. I'm so lucky in that his a-mom "shares" him with me and lets him email me when he wants to, and sends pictures when she gets them, etc. I feel more and more blessed every time I hear a bad story about adoption.

I wish things had worked out better for you, ww. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Please don't think all bmoms are scum, though, k, cause I'm one!

Candy