Hello aria,

I don't think anyone is asking you to change at all. Healing hypersensitivity is not changing you or who you are. It is taking away the hypersensitive reatctions that have built up within you over your lifetime.

I used to be the same way and I was actually hurt a lot because of it. It wasn't until I learned to relax and see the world a slightly more relaxed way and not feel that I had to be dramatic in every response to be understood that I actually started to enjoy life and enjoy being who I am.

I was not my reactions and they were not me, they were just something that had been developed to an acute response pattern because I felt picked on by by mum & brother. These days I don't see or speak to any of them and my life is pleasant, quiet happy and peaceful.

So please don't think you are expected to change because you are not, just your response patterns. And to look at it honestly, you are not yet part of that family and if you wish to be you will need to be accepting of them and who they are if you want them to accept you as you are. Good luck with this and I hope you find happiness.