If someone's name is the subject matter, it obviously is a clue that the post is directed to them. You certainly have the choice on whether to read it or not.

Down grading the post should not be permitted because people willingly read what is not directed towards them......I stand by my remark about caring for each other. It is one reason I am here.

Again, if you or Foolish don't want to see them, why click on them unless your name is there?