It looks like he might not visit her for a few days. I was talking to him today, and he wasn't doing well at all. He was so depressed. He didn't know what to do regarding anything.
I told him to go home for lunch and hug his cat. He loves his cat so much. Well, he was home when he IM'd me.
He was still sad, and didn't like his lunch. He was also very angry because he went to a place to get some lunch when around 20 kids from a local school went in, and he couldn't get what he wanted. He ended up going somewhere else for something he didn't like.
He wasn't sure if he should go back to work or call in sick. He thought it wouldn't look good if he stayed home for the rest of the day, and go put on a show at night (he's also a musician.) I told him to go back to work, and close the door, so he would be alone, and not have to deal with people.
He IM'd me when he got to work and told me he regretted going. He said it seems like what happened to the kid who killed himself and the attempted suicides were taking a toll on him.
He was having such a hard time, and crying. Nothing seems to be helping. We spent the rest of the afternoon, until I had to leave my office, talking on the computer. He really couldn't do work.
Towards the end of our conversation, he told me he felt like hurting himself. I asked him not to, and suggested he try to meditate a little. He didn't think he could but would try. *sigh*