So I come home after being out of town for 4 days and the bathrooms all dusty and the garbage hasnt been taken out or anything and it's like he's been waiting for me to do it- oh and there was two big black marks on the bedspread and I had just finished washing some clean linens for the bed that morning along with some other clothes I brought with me on the trip, I thought perhaps he would change it as a nice surprise or whatever and have the place a l nice for me when I got home. I asked if he saw the marks on it and he said yes. So the place isn't a wreck or anything, it's clean and the dishes are done, but I just thought he woudl've at least dusted a bit- I had a tag from a new shirt I set on the bathroom counter(it's by the apt door) as I was heading out and it was still there when I got home. What the hell? Not like I expected him to throw it out, but I thought perhaps he would have anyway since he uses the bathroom to shower and all. I need to talk to him, because I'm not going to be the only one cleaning up around here. If so, we're going to have a problem. Oh, and there were some things in the fridge that had gone bad he hadn't noticed and a bagel wrapped up on the fridge that had mold all over it! Ew!