Yeah, I see the swing side of this Melba but I really should weigh less. My doctor even said that I should for health reasons and I really will look better.

About 10 years ago I didn't dress very well because I also believed that I didn't deserve it. I changed this and started dressing better and it was good. Have you ever seen "What not to Wear" on the Learning Channel? (I don't know if the UK has this over there or not?) Well, they take people who aren't taking good care of themselves and get them to take good care of themselves and they always have a psychological transformation and self worth is usually involved.

We should honor ourselves by taking good care of ourselves and this involves looking nice........