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Old Sep 14, 2010, 11:57 AM
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I was just adding what healthy self love can mean apart from body image...
Melba this ties in to what I am discussing with deliquesce. Why would we want to split ourselves from our bodies?

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we can look good for our partners but what if we're complete *****es in temper toward them?...but its not that simple to say if we look good we,ve got a healthy self love.
No, it isn't enough just to look good and it really isn't the looking good for other people that is the issue here (except looking good for our husbands). The key is taking care of ourselves and then it shows. You also need the other components of self worth. I never said that self worth is only about looking good. I'm just saying that I still have a bit of self worth to keep working on and it is showing itself here in what I am talking about.
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