Purple, I guess what I am describing is being good to your body which ever side you are coming from. If you are staying really thin to please others this isn't meeting your needs. If I lost 20 pounds I would be no where thin. I would only be at the top of a healthy weight for my height.

I'm sorry that you are around women like that. I wouldn't like that at all.

I have never been concerned about fitting in or looking good so that I can fit in or be accepted. I just want to be healthy and feel good physically.