((ChipmunkGal)) - right now I want you to take some SLOW deep breaths and listen. To be honest I was a little concerned for you because you had a bad break up a few months ago and then a whirlwind courtship with a new fellow and subsequent marriage.

Since he had this BEFORE he met you - this isn't YOUR FAULT at all. The fact he admitted it, is a good sign. It has nothing to do with how you look. Your weight and the way you look is fine...don't change a thing. He has an addiction and possibly an addiction to sex, since you're having it twice a day and he's also supplementing with masturbation. Now masturbation IS normal and even porn in moderation isn't too bad.

Is he is treatment for this. He needs to be in treatment but he needs to want to get away from this. The way you look or how good a wife you are, has nothing to do with this. I think you should give him a limited time, on the condition he seeks treatment.

What does worry me, is him saying "he feels angry when he looks at your picture" and that he gets angry when you don't want to have sex. If he continues to verbally abuse you or strong arms you at all...you should leave immediately. Remember this isn't about you - this is his problem.