Make yourself available so she knows she can come to you, but don't be direct at this point. Just say that if she ever would like to talk about anything, you will be there. Then be there
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What if you slept? And what if in your sleep you dreamed?
And what if in your dreams you went to
heaven and there you plucked a strange and
beautiful flower?
And what if when you awoke you
had the flower in your hand?
Ah! What then?
Samuel Taylor Coleridge