My hubby looks at porn and the way I found out was by walking in on him one day ! I laughed I found it funny, its just the way it affected me.

I then had a go at him for trying to keep it a secret from me as I was more upset by that fact than that he was actually looking at it.

I asked him why he does it and he replied 'because sometimes its just easier, all I want is to be satisfied quickly and not get into actually making love'.

I can understand that so accepted it. The only proviso I put was that if I ask him if he has been looking at porn then he tells me the truth. So far he has owned up everytime.

I hope you can work this out with your hubby.