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Originally Posted by ChipmunkGal
Some of you reading this may have seen my other posts in which I've shared my struggle with body image issues/anorexia etc. Knowing that he prefers a woman with plastic surgery/fake over my body makes me feel even worse. I'm afraid to eat now. I keep thinking if I stop eating I could lose the rest of the weight I need to lose and then he wouldnt go elsewhere for sex. :'( To make matters worse, since I lost so much weight (I've managed to fit into a size 0 and children's size clothing now) my breasts are very small. He MUST be going to another woman because I'm just a worthless fat cow with no breasts.  What do I do now? Why is he not choosing me? Why does a woman on a screen win him? |
Please don't lose anymore weight, sounds to me like you are small enough. I know that you feel like your weight is something you can control when everything else that is happening feels like it is out of your control... I use my weight in the same way
I have super small breasts, it's how I am built. My sister has a nice 'set'
.. but she hates hers just as much as I hate mine LOL. If he didn't find you attractive in the first place he wouldn't have married you - therefore you are attractive to him.
I think that porn gives a guy a quick release.. they don't have to think, they just 'do it' and watching others have sex is either a turn on or not.
Is it a possibility that you can either go to couples counselling together about this? Or maybe try watching the movies together (from what I have seen most of the girls really aren't that attractive! usually have zits on their asses - hope that makes you laugh!).
Don't think of the movies as competition - they can't compete with you as you are REAL xx
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