you did the best thing you could do, csc.  until he chooses to get help he will continue to spiral down. your not enabling him was a wise choice. i'm in recovery 20 years. have learned that many of us take ppl as hostages. sorry this ended up with no fruit but we can hope he will get help. it's out there but he has to want to change.
i saw your mood. try not to be nervous. you can be happy, joyous and free!
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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