I actually can understand your reaction, wepow. It's almost like, after allll the times of wishing T would email you and waiting and waiting for responses to emails you've sent him, now that you finally quit looking for that, NOW he does it? I think I would definitely feel some anger, too, seriously!

If it was me I'd be thinking back to all the times when just getting an email from him would have meant the world to you. Also I would have been majorly annoyed that it seems like as soon as you got over wishing for an email from him, he does it, and now you have to go through wondering all the time again.

I think this smiley applies, where your brain is the pot and your T is stirring it up.