Really, why? I feel it is part of our sexual relationship. My husband looks great. Men are more visually stimulated than woman from what I have gathered.

On Facebook, an update from a friend of my friend came on my newsfeed. I didn't know the guy at all but he wrote that he went to a wedding last night and he said that his wife looked so hot in her dress. I thought that was so nice. They are bonded sexually. I think that it is great. Of course you want other bonds in addition, friendship bonds, parenting bonds, extended family bonds, etc......