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On the other hand, he has been threatening to leave me and becoming very angry and harsh when I have been refusing to let him touch me and when I have crying/angry outburts since I found out about his "secret".
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This really concerns me also. This is a huge red flag. I strongly encourage you to get help, support, and therapy.
When you don't want to be touched, he should always always back off and let you be, without anger or other abuse. Always.
You have the right to not be touched. You can have healthy boundaries and he needs to respect them.
In my opinion ultimately this isn't about his porn use, it is about his abuse of you.
I believe you should get away from him.
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