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Old Sep 15, 2010, 10:53 AM
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thanks...

therapy .... (looks for emoticon wiht head buried in the sand )

time...ive given it many years - i think some things you cant fix and maybe you ahve to accept that - but im not good at accepting either........
or letting it go.......

avoidance - now im good at that! disassociation - taking a step back and living in dreams while my life falls to pieces - yep got that down pat lol

if you touch a fire and it hurts you - why touch it again? reality is my fire and i dont want to touch it again - i know i have to - but im fightintg it inside - dragging my feet every step of the way and sliding back as fast as i can when ever i get the chance......

I dont deserve ..... i cant erase the stain ..i can see it....... dark and filthy ... when i look in the mirror - on those rare occassions that i focus on me - i see it ....

I am told it wasnt my fault - then why pick me and not my sister - what did i do that made me a target? did i somehow send the wrong signal.....

i dont know and il never know cos i wont ask my brothers and my dad is dead.....

and almost 4 years ago the guy that attacked me brought all this back to me - he didint touch me physically - but he tore me apart inside... and i hate him - i dont hate the ones form my childhood - youre supposed to love your family arnt you - so i do - but i cant say the words is all...
or elt them touch me - we've never talked about it and i dont want to - that would make it real - this way - it can be just my imaginantion- just a dream - just my warped mind making warped dreams ...

and the body memories at night - thats cos i have bad bloood in my veins - how do i get rid of that?

I spend my days in games on the computer so i dont have to communicate - now i come here -cos i am so full i cant hold it inside any more...

it feels like i will burst open ....scream ...cry..shout.. i dont know ... never stop..thats why i cant start i wont start!

just howling in the rain i guess - like some old dog locked out of the house.......
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet
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