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My individual T is also my group T. My T usually just facilitates the group and doesn't get involved unless he feels it's necessary. He just sat there during the exchange. But then, he addressed her...He didn't say two words to me. I felt like everyone was kissing her arse so that she wouldn't leave group. BTW, my T is also her individual T.
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Ugh. This sounds like a big ball of yuck. It's unfortunate your T doesn't get involved very often. Seems like that's a big part of group - for the T to intervene to help the members interact in a safe, helpful way. Of course you can't always avoid conflict, but to have him address her and not you sounds really painful.
I get why you wouldn't want to talk with your T about this; it feels messy. I can also understand why you wouldn't want to go to group next week. That might be something helpful to process in T...at some point. Take good care.