Hi flying, theres a good list of websites out there i think, but I just normally go to PC and relate to a lot of the posters in the forum, but i know this really good youtube video that is dead on at describing my BPD and i think it would help people who doesnt have BPD get a general idea of it. Heres the link though it might be triggering to some people out there because there is 1 picture of someone having SI.