(((Rebecca)))

I have a reputation for being really stingy and unwilling to spend money, but the reason for this is that I want savings... should I ever want to do the same thing that you're doing (which I probably will) and go the expensive adoption route or artificial insemination.

I don't believe that it is a woman's 'human right' to give birth to a baby, but I also don't believe that single parents should be demonised. You sound like a responsible person, more responsible than perhaps some married parents are! So I understand the desire to bring a kid up yourself, and as long as you have the means then that's a really great thing.

I hope your parents can grow to understand. Sometimes it is difficult for parents to let go of the dreams that they have for their children. My mum, for example, has already started saving Legos and things for her 'future grandchildren' (!). I think she would be disappointed if I went for it alone, but I hope their lack of support doesn't put you off doing what you want to do.

Have you tried writing to them? Sometimes it is hard to get a word in edgeways with people during arguments, so if they sit down and read a letter, then you can explain yourself without them interrupting you.

It's also important not to compare yourself to your sister! Have you spoken to any professionals about barriers?

Good luck