ARiver,
Thanks for the sweet reply. It's Saturday and I just got back from my mom's house. Seems like every Sat. still go to pieces. My mom had 2 dogs she made me promise to put to sleep when she died. I know at some point I will have to but not now not today. I do feel like this website has been the best thing thats happened in a long time.. Thanks again for your thoughts. Might take you up on the PM, and you feel free to do also.