I have been married to be hubby for 8 years now and met him 20 years ago. He never really has anything to say about my BP. Does not read books etc just gets hurt and upset when I get angry / aggressive / down etc. He always seems to think that I don't love him and when I am needing someone to help me cope I find myself having to help him and I resent him for this. He is a good husband but is very needy and I have to act strong to keep him together. I deal with all the finances (that is why we have no money cause I spend it faster than we earn it), I make all the decisions, do all the shopping etc and I HATE IT. I want someone to look after me. Am I being unreasonable.