Geez, it is true that a therapist is a person. And it is ok to not like certain things about them. But it is the same as any relationship - we have to allow some room for them to be a human.

The trick is to recognize how much help we are getting from T as a professional. They are not a friend, so we don't have to like them. But if we are not able to learn and heal from the sessions, then it is time to find a new T.