I guess I'm lucky, my husband is very supportive and looks the other way when I am in one of my moods. He has learned to take things in stride and loves me despite my illness. Have you ever asked your husband to read up on your condition? Try bringing a book home on it and maybe he will be willing to learn more. It is possible couples counseling would help if he would be willing to go. I know bp is difficult on us and on our loved ones. Wishing the best and hope you can work things out with your husband.