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Originally Posted by flyingbluebird
anybody else feel like they are only really valid, have an identity if attention is focused on them sometimes? often i have felt like i don't exit if others are paid more attention than me or are seen as having more important needs than me. am i the only one or do other feel it too?
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I feel it, bluebird.
You have validated one of my most predominant issues as a bpd.
I feel actually invisible when ppl are focused elsewhere, or if I am visible, I am just in the way.
ty for sharing.
Billi