Hey there...

Someone up the thread suggested a deep breath, that's a good idea...

Your husband is not choosing a picture over you. You have an active (I'm jealous!) sex life, he doesn't seem to have any issues with you.

Internet porn is a terrible addiction. It's very quick and easy. The problem is that the stimulus (pictures) and response (orgasm) occur very quickly so the association becomes very powerful very quickly. Guys tend to be quite visual in their arousal (think of dress-up, etc.). We look at pictures. We're kind of like fish..OOH, SHINY THING, LOOK! (ROTFL)

Because this association is so powerful, it is very difficult to treat. IMHO he does not have an emotional attachment to those women. This is not because of something wrong with you! He learned this when he was young, and to be honest it probably will not change. If you two are good in your relationship otherwise I wouldn't worry too much. If that changes, it probably would have anyway. Love him for who he is, I bet he'll do the same.

Go give him a hug! Or....