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Old Sep 16, 2010, 09:59 PM
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You know you can make a formal complaint against that counsellor for breaking your confidentiality; that is absolutely awful and agaisnt the privacy laws in any area. I get hot under the collar when I hear of such breaches of confidentiality.
I'm not sure if I can because I think she got it out of my journal (the incident from last year) and she's not my doctor. But still, it's wrong.
I do know that kids who are in families with financial stress or kids who are in foster care are given a toiletry pack, but kids can really be so blunt that they make the parent sound like an axe wielding homicidal maniac, when all you are doing is chopping vegetables.
Yeah my son has no concept of time. Last month I accidently ran over his bikes back wheel and he thinks it happened "Way back in 2009" So the lady asks, how often do you bathe and he says about once a month. When really he bathes everyday except some days he will skip if he has not been outside and is tired or whatever. But yeah that made me lol at "about once a month"
Just spray the mould spot with a bit of chlorine bleach or use some white vinegar (which I prefer to use as it isn't toxic). If you can have a cleaning bee at your place and put on cake and coffee or a bbq. If everyone did that for each other, all the houses would be spotless and have a spring clean every 4 or 6 weeks thought I know it isn't always practical.
I did that, it just keeps coming back. It's haunting me haha
But really hon if this social worker can help in any way to get your son his meds I am sure once you speak to her and give her the whole picture there is more chance of being helped and supported rather than pressured and incapable.
I spoke to her on the phone they are going to help us get it. It just seems that every time we turn around the school is after us on something. Everyone I know who knows about all this seems to think the school is picking on us. I don't know why. I guess it's because last year, my son was getting off the bus crying and there were middle school kids calling him a "girl" and "trash" and throing things out the windows at him. I called the school they said they would take care of it but day after day it kept on till I called the principle again and gave her my thoughts on it. I told her I think it's ridiculous they can't control the kids on the bus and if it kept up I was calling the board of education on this. I called but nothing happened so now my son is a car rider. Since then absent notes have "disappered or been lost" invites to certian school functions got "overlooked" his school pictures were "lost" things like that. There are only 250 kids grades K-8 and well you can imagine small town bias
Letting you know you have my support,
Thanks, Rhi
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