Thanks Yoda
I don't think he is depressed, just a happy go lucky type of guy with no real worries in his life. My ex was depressed but still wanted sex if it was on offer!

But seriously 4 weeks away... I just want to jump him when he gets back.. I'm really not used to being 'knocked back' and it is killing my self confidence. He's is loving, cuddles, kisses.. just not the next stage.