Oh dear ((((Belle))))
I was ripping cothes of for months after I met my partner (I guess after nearly 10 yrs celibate I was oiled coiled and ready), but he only wanted it at certain times. I thought it was me but he in fact had hurt his back very badly and was too proud to tell me that it was affecting his ability to attain and sustain an erection for a while there.
But I do think your man would be tired. I am anxious for you now because I know you are doubting the relationship because of your past history with the dirtbag.
Please relax and take it easy. As my man used to say "expect the unexpected" and one night he unexpected me 5 times