NO, you're not bad girls. Something I have always tried to make clear to my own children and those I teach is that at times they may do things that I believe are wrong. They may do things that people would see as "bad". But that does NOT make them bad people. You may (I don't know) have done something wrong. But even if you have, you are not a bad person. I really want you to understand the difference.
Hugs for all of you.
Caroline