my husband and i have been together since 1993 been married since 99..he knows all about my depression and other health problems very well..so he tells me to talk to him when I need to and he will listen..I do that..he says no you don't I tell him its the same ole thing everytime...I tell him whats wrong and he doent listen..he hears but doesnt listen...then wonders why i end up in trouble...how do you get someone to listen to your problems before you go over board and do something you may regret later?