Welcome to my world. My depressed boyfriend is the same way... either not caring or not understanding the havoc it wreacks on our life together.

A good support forum for the families/significant others of people with depression/bipolar is:
http://pub131.ezboard.com/fdepressio...ressionfallout

I use it daily -- you'll find that you are NOT alone in this! Very very frustrating -- I totally know what you're going through.

Hope to see you at the other board!
LMo

We are ALL going to be a-ok!