MJ, we can't always take everybody's feelings into consideration. My main intent was for Heather to see that she had been missed. Although I'm sorry that it makes someone uncomfortable, I can't help what others feel. Maybe if Penna posted more, this person would be better known and missed more. If Ian wasn't such a hostile person, I might have posted to him wondering where he was. However, I never post to these people. There's lots of other people I don't post to and many that don't post to me, but I don't feel sorry for myself or nitpick because someone doesn't miss me. That's life!

What makes me sick is that my welcome to Heather has been turned into yet another bone of contention for absolutely no reason. If I was a whiner, I would be whining about my thread being fouled by a couple of people that don't like me. Yeah, they've annoyed me to no end, but I hope they think how Heather is going to feel tomorrow or the next day when she comes back and sees this thread. It's like she doesn't rate being missed after all the other "shout out" posts to everybody else!

And by the way, they aren't just on the General category. There were a bunch posted on Anxiety earlier this morning after this thread turned sour!!

Other mods posted that this is the place to do what I did, Doc John did also... maybe you should have just left it alone, you think?

He's making a list and checking it twice...