SeptemberMorn, no one at all here suggested that Heather did not "rate" being missed...to suggest that was the intent of myself or anyone else here is unfair to us, and hurtful to Heather.

You have insulted me as well as other people in this thread, for not considering your feelings, yet you yourself state very clearly that you feel no need to take into consideration the feelings of anyone you don't want to. I said it before, and I am going to say it again, I am saddened by this behavior.

I apologize for my statement that these posts appear in the General section...when I did my search, that is where they all seemed to be...I was mistaken.

Finally, no, I don't think I should have "just left it alone." My feelings are as valid as yours, whether you care to acknowledge them or not, and I don't see any reason why I should be forced to stifle mine while you are allowed to state yours. I wonder if you spent as many hours agonizing over your reply as I spent on mine.

I am truly sorry for all that this forum has become.

mj