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Originally Posted by Tishie
If I feel I am about to be rejected (often I am wrong) I reject first ! Its my way of dealing with it I get in first.
I hate being rejected I know it can really hurt.
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I do that as well. My thought process being "I'll leave you before you leave me."
Since I'm married I no longer do that in relationships with men but I still do it in other aspects of my life.
To avoid rejection I'll isolate, shut-down, avoid and rage. (I'm a lot of fun
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