 i'm curious, are you in therapy? idk but it seems as tho many adoptees have abandonment issues. it might help to discuss this with a T to develop coping skills when you feel rejected....and it might result in keeping a friendship rather than losing one.
idk but for me it enabled me to learn how to have healthier relationships and as a result i keep them as a rule.
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