My grandmother lived to 94 and I hear her voice in my head a lot She would say things that were inappropriate (to my generation), but in her time were acceptable. She would also say some very wise things, and comforting...the fact that my four sibs and I could never settle on one career wasn't bad in her eyes; she would just say, You kids are so good at so many things, it's just hard for you to pick one. I bet my grandma would have some choice words for all the FDBs in the world who make it so hard for us to have a career...