Have you ever watched The Last Lecture by Dr. Randy Pausch on YouTube? He was a professor at Carnegie-Mellon and he delivered a lecture on his life's lessons as he was dying of pancreatic cancer. One of his quotes was,
"If there is an elephant standing in your living room, at least have the decency to introduce him."
In other words, acknowledge that which is difficult to mention, to talk about, to admit; in our case, there is no shame in being ill. In fact, by verbalizing that which occupies our minds, it negates the power that the problem is holding over us and empowers us to find and participate in a solution.
How often have we all heard the words, "Admitting it is the first step...""
I am so glad that you were able to talk with your husband and that he is willing to support you during this critical time. It is great that you have someone on your side. You are part of a team and there is strength in numbers. As for me, I am still looking for a frog.
hugs, Colleen
Princess, having had sufficient experience with princes, seeks frog!

PS... When you have some spare time, watch The Last Lecture... it is very inspirational. I will send links when I get up.