Hi. You have so much on your plate right now. I don't have anywhere as much to deal with as you at the moment. Things with the bf(or is it ex?) Anyway. They are at a maximum crisis situation. The boundaries thing is a great idea. And making sure you are ok is a priority.
And I am sorry you felt humiliated in the other post. Keep writing your experiences and positive things. Try not to let others bring you down. I'm sure it didn't feel good. I agree it should have not got a response like the one you received. We should all be greatful for good responses. But we are all human and all do things dif. Try not to take it to heart. Your posts are there so you can be helped too. Let it out. I know that some people get offended and hurt by responses. If it gets too bad or heated they close the thread. Keeps everyone safe. Sorry I'm not keeping my order. I'm fuzze and not quite awake and want you to know this is a place for help and you are welcome to make long answers. I just always think of this as being a resource and an outlet where some will respond the way we want and some won't and we have to take both without taking too personal. Try not to anyway. We are all human and we do and say things that aren't always appropriate.