I"m in agreement with LynnP and Sabrina. There are so many things that are important and dear to us during each stage of our lives; some more intense than others. Our growth depends on learning in each stage. So, yes in that there is getting over those things that you believed caused you pain. No, in that schiz begins at a late teen age and sometimes exhibited more severely in some than others. Yes in that somewhere in it all we learn to let go, become brave about our sensitivities and make a determination to live beyond the depression. That's a good thing.