Thank you vdragonfly and PT52 for commenting, I'm still kind of new here and its really nice knowing there's a place to go and talk or vent with people who know what you're going through.
PT52 -my husband said the same thing to me last night: just do one thing. It is good advice and I'm going to try to remember that each day, so I don't get so overwhelmed.
Today has been better, even though this morning I woke up with really bad back pain, I took a pain killer and a muscle relaxer; that seemed to help. My son started to clean out the garage so I helped him organize some stuff.
-And Sundog thank you for the big hug! I think it's fine that you posted here, I think its good because you've brightened up somebody's day.