Hi PAYNE1.

I would like to comment on your thoughts here. I do understand where you are coming from. It can be hard at times to know how the written word is being meant. Since you are relatively new, it may be possible that there is a break in period for you to get to know the members a bit better and understand where they are coming from. Maybe you can let others post a bit before you chime in so that you can catch the drift of the conversation and in which way it's headed? I wonder if that would be a good way to get to know the members a little better and get a feel for how they post.

There are times when people are struggling and the only thing they can do is to laugh about their issues. It sure beats crying and being upset all the time, don't you think?

We don't have a community guideline that states all posts must be serious in every forum. Since this is a mental health website, members posts can run from one end of the spectrum to the other (silly/carefree/funny to serious/angry/hurt) at any given time.

I'm sorry this has been difficult for you. I hope that what I have said has been helpful to you. Whenever you have a problem or issue with PC, please feel free to pm myself or any mod/admin about it and we'll be more than happy to assist you.

With Care,
_sabby_