I am having some real issues with my husband - I am feeling depressed and a lot has been backfiring and going wrong for me - but honestly, my husband is worse than me.

We can no longer communicate worth anything. Mostly, he blames me for just about everything.

He also tends to take things I say and come up with the weirdest, off the wall stuff that he "thinks" I said - and I never said them or even thought them.

I have struggled with whether or not my husband is emotionally abusive? Or has he lost it?

But I know that he kind of drives me nuts - it sometimes doesn't matter what I say, he will turn it into whatever weird thing he is thinking or stressing on - and often that has nothing to do with me or what we're talking about.

I have no other person to live with - my family has mostly all abandoned me. Friends have dumped/abandoned me mostly (not all), but the ones I have, I could not impose on.

I also don't want to leave my husband struggling mentally - but I also seem to make it worse, no matter what I do.

I feel there is only one thing I can do to make this any better - just be quiet, shut up, and don't bother him in any way. I feel like a horrible albatross around his neck and burden - and I hate feeling this way.

I am going to try and not talk to him about anything wrong or any feelings I have, etc. I think it is what he wants/needs. But it does leave me alone.....

Oh and the worst of the worst - because I have a history of depression - I get blamed for it all - no matter what.