It feels very abusive to me. But I am struggling with this idea, because when we originally went into counseling - he listened to the counselor, and things went so much better! I had great hopes.
But suddenly it all backfired - and I even feel he is either losing it - or he is trying to get me to divorce him, leave him or he's driving me away - or else he just wants me to give up. I can't make heads or tales of it. But I just know he did do better - "we" did better - but now????? What happened is what I don't know - maybe he just does not want me.
He twists my words - and I try to clarify and he twists them again. Maybe he hates me.
Maybe its time I find a plan - I don't know. Don't know where to start - but thank you for posting. Thank you for your support.
It helps.
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Originally Posted by ThatMan
It's okay to vent. Everyone deserves to have someone there for support. Someone that treats you, "Normally." Anyone can understand how overwhelming your situation feels if even doctors haven't helped. However, you mentioned something that worries me, your marriage. One thing I've learned early on is that being forced to stay in a negative relationship because it feels like you have no other choice is often unhealthy or even abusive. I sincerely hope that isn't the case here and that whatever you two decide on that you'll be given a fresh new start. Please hang in there.
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