It feels very abusive to me. But I am struggling with this idea, because when we originally went into counseling - he listened to the counselor, and things went so much better! I had great hopes.

But suddenly it all backfired - and I even feel he is either losing it - or he is trying to get me to divorce him, leave him or he's driving me away - or else he just wants me to give up. I can't make heads or tales of it. But I just know he did do better - "we" did better - but now????? What happened is what I don't know - maybe he just does not want me.

He twists my words - and I try to clarify and he twists them again. Maybe he hates me.

Maybe its time I find a plan - I don't know. Don't know where to start - but thank you for posting. Thank you for your support. It helps.