That's my feeling too, acrazynao, that Shannon should move out and sort her feelings out; but I believe Shannon is the one who wants to move out, and Michael is saying he will only "allow" it if she does what he wants and goes to therapy (accepts his view that there is something wrong with her and she needs help). I find that condescending. Shannon isn't here, doesn't feel she has a problem; she wants to move out, she didn't say she wanted therapy. Someone else telling Shannon what is best for Shannon is out of line.