Needed a break! I am not a lawyer but I find myself playing one in real life to get my son back from my evil sister ( I can call her that here w/o repercussions); The presumption is innocence unless proven guilty- well here in NH you are guilty of being a bad parent if another person says so until you prove yourself innocent! Hearing in one week; trial in 3- total overload- anxiety is up so it is hard to concentrate and get my thoughts in rational order; need to be clearheaded so can't take meds to lower anxiety! Catch 22- refers to so many things! I know My husband and I will never stop fighting to get our son back, but sometimes i get so overwhelmed learning what I can do to this end! they quote the length of time he has been away- but it was the court that delayed this time frame! OK enough whining have to get back to work- they want proof I will bury them in it!