Hi MDaze,
I guess you had to be there. I wish you
could take away the pain of it; I wish I could adopt your alternate view but I cannot. I was there.
This was just one instance. I could tell you more but you'd be wanting to charge me $150 an hour, lol.

At any rate I wish they'd stop asking me what I want them to do about my birthday. "ungrateful and twisted" is just how I feel.